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We are talking ACEs with Dr. Kim Bond who works at https://napac.org.uk/ ACEs are Adverse Childhood Experiences and in this series, we discuss what they are and how they affect the development of the child and later the adult.
Dr. Kim Bond studied what the survivors of these experiences wanted whereas other studies have been conducted from a law/justice point of view.
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00:00 Introduction
00:50 What are ACEs
03:00 Was is abuse?
04:04 Imbalance of power in abuse
09:19 Introducing ACEs
11:00 Lack of choice and support
12:03 Community, Personal and Social ACes
13:50 Indelible marks
16:08 Loss of innocence
18:19 Bearing witness
19:30 Comparisions
22:13 Using your own words
25:15 What is an undisclosed and disclosed survivors
30:50 Less obvious contextual ACEs
31:40 Adverse doesn’t mean abuse
33:22 Missing connection
34:20 Exploiting the vulnerable
35:38 Shades of Grey
40:50 Normalacy
44:20 Emotional Support & avaliability
46:43 Begining to break cycles
47:50 Ownership & grieving vunerability
51:40 Engaged Recovery
53:03 Living with Injury
53:45 You choose who and what you share
55:40 Setting your boundaries si good for you
57:35 Red Flags
59:15 End