We welcome Rachel Tegg from Child Bereavement UK. 16/11 is Child Bereavement Day and how you can help and support bereaved children.
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00:00 Intro
02:00 Child Bereavement UK
03:10 Adult – Child experience
06:08 Open conversations
06:55 Emotions, not being heard
08:25 The sanitised world and protecting children
09:53 Imagination fills the gap
11:11 Healthy processing
12:50 spending time with the feelings
13:23 Grief comes in waves
15:00 Masking
16:03 Modelling behaviours
17:30 We don’t talk about it
18:40 Concept of death
20:18 Euphemisms
22:26 Explaining differences
23:07 Reassuring the child
23:55 Trusting
24:10 Curveball Questions and Golden Rules
26:40 Exaggerated fear
28:44 Opportunities to understand
30:38 Ready for support
31:31 Expectations
32:18 Grief timelines
33:44 How you grieve is normal
34:28 Seeking to understand
36:15 Support and control, that works for you
37:50 Pyramid and NICE guidelines
39:38 What makes the difference
40:14 First contact and you
42:42 You are with peers
43:15 Separation and complexity of grieving
45:17 Challenges of grieving
47:00 Living Loss and bereavement
48:20 Point of bereavement
50:00 Shifting grief
51:22 How to get support
53:20 Summary