We are delighted to have on as our guest Piers Cross. Piers is a world-leading expert in Boarding School Syndrome and how it not only affects the individual growing up in the system. It also potentially affects a nation if the leader has been in privately educated in a boarding school.
Piers offers group and 121 coaching and he can be found here:
07789 683 430
Piers has a book out and another is on its way along with a documentary.
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00:00 Introducing Piers Cross & Boarding School Syndrome
02:50 The privilege of the double bind
04:30 Neglect & Trauma
07:37 Ages of Children
11:20 Cracking up, breaking down
15:00 ACEs impacts the adult
18:37 Hierarchies and power dynamics
23:50 Following the rules. Shame and Guilt
25:50 Split Identities
27:30 Achievements & Validation
29:37 Monastic life
30:30 Ways Peir helps his clients
33:18 The Feeling Wheel, Emotional Literacy & Leadership
36:50 Transactional friendships
38:40 Experiences of Women and Men
40:00 Friends are dangerous, Learning to Trust
43:55 How to get hold of Piers, Books and more
47:00 The Documentary
47:43 ABCD of Boarding School Syndrome
48:10 Experiences from around the world
49:00 Tom Brown’s School days
51:23 Scent of a Woman and Spaffing Money
54:13 Alex Renton
57:57 What message would you like to give?
1:00:00 Three Stages of Healing
1:03:00 What changes to make to the system?