{"id":2196,"date":"2023-08-03T18:05:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-03T18:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/47d54371-0dd8-4dc8-b97f-4614b5bedb0d"},"modified":"2024-12-29T16:48:34","modified_gmt":"2024-12-29T16:48:34","slug":"ep-16-the-problem-is-never-the-problem","status":"publish","type":"sr_playlist","link":"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/?sr_playlist=ep-16-the-problem-is-never-the-problem","title":{"rendered":"EP 16: The Problem is never the Problem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We are pleased to introduce our friend Cuddy Cudworth founded<br \/>\nMonkey Mind Relaxation and with his business partner Graham Nicolls run the<br \/>\nPriority Mind Management. <\/p>\n<p>The chat centres around \u201cIs the Problem the Problem?\u201d and<br \/>\nhow we attach labels, emotions and meaning to the events in our lives and those labels<br \/>\netc. can either empower us or we can be disempowered by our thoughts, feelings<br \/>\nand actions. <\/p>\n<p>You can find Cuddy here: <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/monkeymindrelaxation.com\/\">https:\/\/monkeymindrelaxation.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.prioritymindmanagement.com\/\">https:\/\/www.prioritymindmanagement.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You can ask Ali and Rich questions via our email: <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:alirich@rethinking-trauma-and-transition.com\">alirich@rethinking-trauma-and-transition.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Join our LinkedIn and Facebook pages:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/company\/rethinking-trauma-and-transition\/?viewAsMember=true\">https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/company\/rethinking-trauma-and-transition\/?viewAsMember=true<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/RethinkingTrauma\/\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/RethinkingTrauma\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Or you can work individually with us here<\/p>\n<p>Ali<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mojo-in-mind.com\/\">https:\/\/mojo-in-mind.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Rich <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/resilientdefence.co.uk\/\">https:\/\/resilientdefence.co.uk\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can buy Rich\u2019s books here:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mr-Richard-Hilton\/e\/B0B1GXTH61\/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk\">https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mr-Richard-Hilton\/e\/B0B1GXTH61\/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>00:00 Introduction and our guest Cuddy Cudworth<\/p>\n<p>01:40 What is Mind Management?<\/p>\n<p>02:40 Coaches&#039; beliefs around trauma<\/p>\n<p>03:25 The Problem is Not the Problem<\/p>\n<p>04:55 Event Fixation and our response<\/p>\n<p>06:25 Emotional Labelling<\/p>\n<p>07:50 Ali\u2019s Suit Jacket<\/p>\n<p>09:50 Misdiagnosing<\/p>\n<p>10:38 It is just a bar<\/p>\n<p>12:38 Procrastinating? 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