https:\/\/napac.org.uk\/<\/a> ACEs are Adverse Childhood Experiences and in this series, we discuss what they are and how they affect the development of the child and later the adult. <\/p>\nDr. Kim Bond studied what the survivors of these experiences wanted whereas other studies have been conducted from a law\/justice point of view. <\/p>\n
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00:00 Introduction\u00a0<\/p>\n
00:50 What are ACEs<\/p>\n
03:00 Was is abuse?<\/p>\n
04:04 Imbalance of power in abuse<\/p>\n
09:19 Introducing ACEs<\/p>\n
11:00 Lack of choice and support<\/p>\n
12:03 Community, Personal and Social ACes<\/p>\n
13:50 Indelible marks<\/p>\n
16:08 Loss of innocence<\/p>\n
18:19 Bearing witness<\/p>\n
19:30 Comparisions\u00a0<\/p>\n
22:13 Using your own words<\/p>\n
25:15 What is an undisclosed and disclosed survivors<\/p>\n
30:50 Less obvious contextual ACEs<\/p>\n
31:40 Adverse doesn\u2019t mean abuse\u00a0<\/p>\n
33:22 Missing connection<\/p>\n
34:20 Exploiting the vulnerable\u00a0<\/p>\n
35:38 Shades of Grey<\/p>\n
40:50 Normalacy\u00a0<\/p>\n
44:20 Emotional Support & avaliability<\/p>\n
46:43 Begining to break cycles\u00a0<\/p>\n
47:50 Ownership & grieving vunerability\u00a0<\/p>\n
51:40 Engaged Recovery\u00a0<\/p>\n
53:03 Living with Injury<\/p>\n
53:45 You choose who and what you share<\/p>\n
55:40 Setting your boundaries si good for you<\/p>\n
57:35 Red Flags\u00a0<\/p>\n
59:15 End <\/p>\n
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