{"id":72,"date":"2019-04-18T11:25:54","date_gmt":"2019-04-18T11:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/envothemes.com\/envo-ecommerce\/?page_id=72"},"modified":"2025-04-02T09:33:29","modified_gmt":"2025-04-02T09:33:29","slug":"blog","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/?page_id=72","title":{"rendered":"Blog"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-advanced-heading uagb-block-1ce11838\"><h1 class=\"uagb-heading-text\">Insights &amp; Impact: Supporting Veterans and Strengthening Workplaces<\/h1><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7a027646bf7d3cc911d7d22f3830ccb5\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">When leaving the Armed Forces or any long-term career. There is a change not only in the transition from one career path to another but there is also the emotional impact it has. This is summed up beautifully in the Kubler-Ross model below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-167aeb08504fd0d9a009dcf2f1dea1cf\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Depending on how good the HR staff or the organisation they will recognise this fact and have programs that can help the leaver better cope with these situations and lessen the impact it has on them because they&#8217;ll have an understanding that they are going to go through something that other people have gone through before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"720\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/the_kubler_ross_change_curve_for_change_management_strategy_slide01.jpg\" alt=\"Kubler-Ross model\" class=\"wp-image-1300\" style=\"width:528px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/the_kubler_ross_change_curve_for_change_management_strategy_slide01.jpg 960w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/the_kubler_ross_change_curve_for_change_management_strategy_slide01-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/the_kubler_ross_change_curve_for_change_management_strategy_slide01-768x576.jpg 768w\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Straw poll about work when leaving HM Forces<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-08629b2410279a3a8291bef613ca8828\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">We conducted a small straw poll to get an idea of the length of time people were in work from leaving the forces and how long they had left as well as how long they were in a job for: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-large-font-size\">Time Since Leaving the Forces<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a84450967068d58152bb62d3e9a776a7\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">0-3 years 0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d05170b60953544535036bb152c80274\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">4-7 years 1<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-60a521f14dde59d10f178d8840266ca0\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">8-11 years 2<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a9e9bebe9d70dab6b585b023fc513fe7\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">12 or more years 13<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-large-font-size\">Longest time in a job since leaving the Forces: <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3b794541b6414095fd66824f3c2e4320\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">6 Months 1 person <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-07aa14af25f2f1022aa167004cd9df6d\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">1 Year 1 person<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8271070ba8b726b4e9696e55e04d6c59\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">3 years 2 persons <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5c654a82357bcd57fbcfb1cd48d1d3ea\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">3.5 years 1 person <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2ce6749b5251ade26a20ec2c26cd1621\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">4 years 2 persons <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1c1654c1ff61b98b60712f54a870d0b8\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">5 years 2 persons <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d980b3935e25d89c9fd836ffae388c1a\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">8 years 1 person <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-fe576bd269ed00144178274c341daf9b\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">18 years 1 person <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a3776c1d56283198219f50f509e80140\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">20 years 1 person <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c3e3336bc8686f461059193c425a0006\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">The range of jobs were everything from transportation, Science and retail and other things in between. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary>General experiences of Post Traumatic Stress<\/summary>\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8b1ef11568eaa3dede2cccbbb84a5563\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">The DSM &#8211; 5 says PTSD is a mental disorder that can develop after exposure to a traumatic event, war, rape, or a natural disaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-dfbc8b91f5499c093dde3e190a8722cc\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">It is normal to have distressing or upsetting memories, feeling on edge, or trouble sleeping after the event. Everyday activities may be hard to do, such as going out and being social, going to work or having healthy relationships with your family and friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-75e7a63b394aad6c394b576752e7fa14\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">PTSI\/D may start sometime after the event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1f4876b614a14f5afcf1c5b2782c14b8\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">A point to note at WMtD we prefer calling Post Traumatic Stress an Injury not a Disorder. We believe that the change of language from disorder to injury can help the sufferer heal. What the healing and recovery looks like is as individual as the people experiencing it. This is for information only and not to be used to diagnose.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary>Symptoms of PTSI\/D<\/summary>\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a750e163e411da1936fc8153fc463b21\" style=\"color:#f7cd84\">A) Reliving the event\/s (re-experiencing symptoms) Memories can come back at anytime and can appear to be very real. Nightmares, night terrors and\/or Flashbacks. You may see, hear or smell something that causes you to relive the event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7a2d1c174fc147bb681e67dd1d68cdcb\" style=\"color:#f7cd84\">B) Avoiding situations or people that could end up with you remembering or reliving the traumatic event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-169af6e9d239e0c503e1188f13582ef3\" style=\"color:#f7cd84\"><\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary>Avoidance<\/summary>\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-a39539dd5dc582d9c4a5edb39ae7b26d\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Avoiding crowds the feeling of safety and security away from them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-68ebc2257a09dc429fefddf964ba480f\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Avoiding driving if you were in a convoy that had been attacked in some way<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1cbabb4703307a872d36cac2e278d625\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Avoiding watching films or tv programs about a similar event you experienced<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f212f7f0a3a28711d0bc5027f008d1c1\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Keeping busy to avoid thinking or talking about the event<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary>An increase in negative thought or feelings.<\/summary>\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-eca8aa185b1cf09e01f7ee26bfc5d9c1\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">C) Your thinking may be more negative as in how you view yourself and others. Feeling numb &#8211; not able to feel positive feelings towards other people or yourself, loss of interest in things previously enjoyed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5381300ec587a24668f57f9a07f6da8b\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Memory &#8211; the event has been &#8220;wiped&#8221; or changed to something different, to less painful to remember.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d119c859bd62c94d4052c3065efd188e\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Paranoia &#8211; the world and everyone is out to get me. No one is to be trusted. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4909375dc5df5b679e2660c50ec3e40c\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Feelings of Guilt or shame &#8211; you may feel guilty that you survived and your oppo didn&#8217;t. There may be shame about a decision.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary>Hyperarousal<\/summary>\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-90fbf0862c160e81b9461430bce4b8cc\" style=\"color:#f7cd84\">D) Constantly on the lookout for threats that aren&#8217;t there i.e. Walking down a street why is a window open and the others closed on that road. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-78c5f16071e3225157a9b58c82f3afa1\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Insomnia &#8211; not being able to sleep or going to sleep but then waking up a few hours after and not sleeping again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4cd9ad560ac40b7b2f102b4a0a9e45c9\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Concentrating &#8211; Finding it hard to focus <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-b1bcd3b13c518bb1965d4998c28406ba\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Loud noises &#8211; Again this is avoidance, not wanting to go to firework displays because it triggers recall of the event<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-488bd248ad0f9d38715f5e8f6317975f\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Risk taking &#8211; Gambling, abusing alcohol or other substances<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-separator uagb-block-7710d4e4\"><div class=\"wp-block-uagb-separator__inner\" style=\"--my-background-image:\"><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary>Ways to help yourself<\/summary>\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-99daddeead6fb17099423742ff2c1c01\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Grounding &#8211; Breathing techniques and noticing how you are breathing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-dea39999f77788254d5db38aad83144b\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Meditation\/mindfulness &#8211; meditation can take many forms such as walking, sitting and having a mantra or something to focus on<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7f02f1f985e8a41e933ba8032429b838\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Diet\/nutrition &#8211; The better diet and more nutritionally dense the foods you eat the more positive the effects on the brain and body<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-903e454c93bce708c1a3995af8448355\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Peer support\/community &#8211; Finding people with similar experiences and sharing with them. Connecting with people is essential in helping to recover.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8c606c1d3cfdb58681af82d0c27a1e41\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Today, let&#8217;s dive into how structured environments like the uniformed services (armed forces, police, paramedics, and firefighters) can be a great fit for neuro-different individuals, and how transitioning to civilian life can present unique challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary><strong>Benefits of Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs) in Uniformed Services:<\/strong><br><\/summary>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img data-dominant-color=\"515146\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #515146;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"525\" height=\"350\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 525px) 100vw, 525px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-5052096-5052096.webp\" alt=\"A young man organizing camping gear beside a tent in a scenic forest.\" class=\"wp-image-2633 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-5052096-5052096.webp 525w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-5052096-5052096-300x200.webp 300w\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c7f88fb8a67d6211573d75a39d16ddfd\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Clear guidelines and rules provide structure and predictability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-f5d277ca1cdf310c63f1c088ed6918a5\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Helps reduce ambiguity during operations, exercises, or daily routines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-196eea804b1d44dd193d7adf8ed94618\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Promotes teamwork and coordination based on defined procedures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-76423a9b6d104bd91e9a51e3cc96d69e\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Supports individuals with neuro-differences by offering a systematic approach.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary><strong>Challenges of Transitioning to Civilian Workplaces:<\/strong><\/summary>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img data-dominant-color=\"c0b5a9\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #c0b5a9;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"233\" height=\"350\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 233px) 100vw, 233px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-7203955-7203955.webp\" alt=\"A man in casual attire balances boxes labeled with stress-related words indoors.\" class=\"wp-image-2629 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-7203955-7203955.webp 233w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-7203955-7203955-200x300.webp 200w\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-24796fc09c04c1c75f782f1752fcb4fd\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Loss of structured environment and familiar routines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-299580f8d7d5aa2dd1d100435c797531\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Increased ambiguity and uncertainty in job roles and expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6be0f8abaa3ee15906dec3fe6c5e80ae\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Difficulty adapting to less formalised processes and organisational cultures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-357db7b6929ad741c5ae0124697aab10\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Potential isolation without the strong community found in the uniformed services.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary><strong>Navigating the Transition Successfully:<\/strong><\/summary>\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0d2fb797566bf11d5555d5ce5a11f909\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Seek out employers or industries with clear structures and processes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0bf8b0366192a6c1c145b097a58e3c5f\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Utilise transferable skills gained from uniformed services (e.g., teamwork, problem-solving).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5c454f6a678460fb611e0cdf19f269d7\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Explore neuro-friendly workplaces that value diversity and inclusivity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ce6d252be220ae40f33c8768dab6265f\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Consider seeking support through coaching or mentorship programs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-41282065cc7e33190454d8a19ae090bc\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Find a community that can support you<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2b49a6751d145ca770202a9813d9aa8f\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">At What Makes the Difference CIC we work with individuals with neuro-differences during transitions to civilian life. Our tailored coaching and resources can help you navigate the challenges and thrive in new environments. If you are already employed, we can work with you and your organisation to overcome the challenges you may be facing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c99d7f1d6578cede2a438866c410aff1\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Remember, you&#8217;re not alone in this journey. Embrace your strengths, stay adaptable, and find communities that appreciate your unique talents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-0f6b4224c89dcf510a5e1b864efec12e\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Let&#8217;s continue this conversation and share experiences that can benefit each other!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary>Leaving the Armed Forces Feels Like Sailing Into a Storm <br><br><\/summary>\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-image aligncenter uagb-block-bdfbd679 wp-block-uagb-image--layout-default wp-block-uagb-image--effect-static wp-block-uagb-image--align-center\"><figure class=\"wp-block-uagb-image__figure\"><img decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g06647e3cbce01d62f29093158351fc63342e3e87ce6b1756fde83e08fc10824d3d4d87fde5613a16b5ec8a3ef0c57c0b0bb81716db112a80591ab69313844ae5_1280-4609122-1024x682.webp ,https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g06647e3cbce01d62f29093158351fc63342e3e87ce6b1756fde83e08fc10824d3d4d87fde5613a16b5ec8a3ef0c57c0b0bb81716db112a80591ab69313844ae5_1280-4609122.webp 780w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g06647e3cbce01d62f29093158351fc63342e3e87ce6b1756fde83e08fc10824d3d4d87fde5613a16b5ec8a3ef0c57c0b0bb81716db112a80591ab69313844ae5_1280-4609122.webp 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g06647e3cbce01d62f29093158351fc63342e3e87ce6b1756fde83e08fc10824d3d4d87fde5613a16b5ec8a3ef0c57c0b0bb81716db112a80591ab69313844ae5_1280-4609122-1024x682.webp\" alt=\"storm, sea, ship, ocean, sky, weather, nature, rain, waves, thunderstorm, hurricane, dramatic, dark, coast, boat, flash, water, mood, threatening, cloud, light, atmospheric, gloomy, brown rain, brown dark, brown boat, brown storm, hurricane, hurricane, hurricane, hurricane, hurricane\" class=\"uag-image-2626\" width=\"411\" height=\"199\" title=\"g06647e3cbce01d62f29093158351fc63342e3e87ce6b1756fde83e08fc10824d3d4d87fde5613a16b5ec8a3ef0c57c0b0bb81716db112a80591ab69313844ae5_1280-4609122\" loading=\"lazy\" role=\"img\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ccd06134d4a4868a99d873a1a7536699\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Imagine this: joining the military is like setting sail on a new journey across unfamiliar seas. Everyone around you is in a similar boat, heading in the same direction. You\u2019ve been through basic training, Phase 2, and countless challenges\u2014prepared for rough waters, stormy weather, and the unknown. But through it all, you had your comrades, a mission, and a clear sense of purpose.<br><br>Then, you leave. And suddenly, you\u2019re caught in a storm you never trained for.<br>Hurricane 1: A New Career \u2013 You know how to do the job, but where do you fit in? The culture, expectations, and unspoken rules feel completely different.<br><br>Hurricane 2: New Relationship Rules \u2013 You\u2019re home more. But instead of feeling connected, friction builds. Arguments, miscommunication, and a sense of being in each other\u2019s way start creeping in.<br><br>Hurricane 3: A New Location \u2013 You\u2019re in a new community, but how do you integrate? Where do you belong now?<br><br>Hurricane 4: Navigating Civilian Services \u2013 Need a doctor or dentist? Good luck getting an appointment. The systems you relied on are gone, and now everything takes time, effort, and patience.<br><br>Hurricane 5: BILLS, BILLS, BILLS \u2013 Rent, council tax, utilities\u2026 Why does it all cost so much? And why is no one explaining it?<br><br>Hurricane 6: The Boat Feels Outdated \u2013 The skills, mindset, and ways of operating that served you well in the military don\u2019t seem to fit here. You feel lost. The urge to go back is strong. At least there, you knew the rules.<br><br>Your original boat still has value. It carried you through some of the toughest times. But what\u2019s missing is someone to help you upgrade it\u2014to navigate this new environment, update your maps, and make sense of these new waters. <br><br>The problem? No one talks about it. Others seem to have figured it out, but their upgrades happened gradually, almost unnoticed.<br><br>So here you are, feeling adrift, wondering:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-06da6210d65ae96a460fb44dc6866b79\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\"><br>Why did I leave? Should I rejoin? How am I meant to cope?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6128d6e70aae9b7714817daffe8873f0\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\"><br>If this resonates with you, you\u2019re not alone. And you don\u2019t have to figure it all out by yourself.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Understanding Transition Stress<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-dominant-color=\"2f2d25\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #2f2d25;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"770\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-8615817-8615817-1024x770.webp\" alt=\"Close-up of tactical military gear including rifle, backpack, and helmet in camouflage.\" class=\"wp-image-2982 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-8615817-8615817-1024x770.webp 1024w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-8615817-8615817-300x226.webp 300w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-8615817-8615817-768x578.webp 768w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-8615817-8615817-1536x1155.webp 1536w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-8615817-8615817-2048x1540.webp 2048w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-8615817-8615817-600x451.webp 600w\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-dominant-color=\"857c72\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #857c72;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-2859169-2859169-1024x683.webp\" alt=\"A collection of vintage maps scattered for exploring world journeys and discoveries.\" class=\"wp-image-2983 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-2859169-2859169-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-2859169-2859169-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-2859169-2859169-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-2859169-2859169-1536x1024.webp 1536w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-2859169-2859169-2048x1365.webp 2048w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/pexels-photo-2859169-2859169-600x400.webp 600w\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img data-dominant-color=\"777a71\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g5ab034f5194f4a9f57e4571b1f843ee1be8e09053565a1944ba07ba55586edd146df6802215460c69fb6a5df51706e77_1280-413093-768x1024.webp\" alt=\"success, gradually, career, stairs, stages, up, rise, in stages, haltingly, piece by piece, leisurely, successively, imperceptibly, hesitant, step by step, slow, carefully, careful, detailed, thoughtful, gentle, considered, prudent, success, success, success, success, success, career, career, career, slow\" class=\"wp-image-2985 not-transparent\" style=\"--dominant-color: #777a71; width:208px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g5ab034f5194f4a9f57e4571b1f843ee1be8e09053565a1944ba07ba55586edd146df6802215460c69fb6a5df51706e77_1280-413093-768x1024.webp 768w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g5ab034f5194f4a9f57e4571b1f843ee1be8e09053565a1944ba07ba55586edd146df6802215460c69fb6a5df51706e77_1280-413093-225x300.webp 225w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g5ab034f5194f4a9f57e4571b1f843ee1be8e09053565a1944ba07ba55586edd146df6802215460c69fb6a5df51706e77_1280-413093-600x800.webp 600w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g5ab034f5194f4a9f57e4571b1f843ee1be8e09053565a1944ba07ba55586edd146df6802215460c69fb6a5df51706e77_1280-413093.webp 960w\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5d6281f80e6daba7d2fa0880dac0492a\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Adjusting to a new phase in life, whether it\u2019s leaving a career, stepping into a different role, or redefining your purpose, can be challenging. Below are key ways transition stress might be affecting you<\/p>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary><strong>The Strain of \u201cThee Before Me\u201d<\/strong> or the <strong>Hidden Cost of Always Putting Others First<\/strong> <\/summary>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img data-dominant-color=\"c6c9cb\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/gb1d73e6652e15296f0e04c4487e65452fdab3bf22f6c1bfafe6aff26716c6505575de6194496d73b5dd19aa2819be3e989db390ddbf2d101712361e2c14d683e_1280-3082670-1024x682.webp\" alt=\"first aid, supply, nurse, rescue, emergency, medic, patch up, medicine, paramedic, savior, figure, first aid kit, help, bandages, pavement, ambulance kit, container, first aid, first aid, first aid, first aid, first aid, nurse, nurse\" class=\"wp-image-2905 not-transparent\" style=\"--dominant-color: #c6c9cb; width:366px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/gb1d73e6652e15296f0e04c4487e65452fdab3bf22f6c1bfafe6aff26716c6505575de6194496d73b5dd19aa2819be3e989db390ddbf2d101712361e2c14d683e_1280-3082670-1024x682.webp 1024w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/gb1d73e6652e15296f0e04c4487e65452fdab3bf22f6c1bfafe6aff26716c6505575de6194496d73b5dd19aa2819be3e989db390ddbf2d101712361e2c14d683e_1280-3082670-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/gb1d73e6652e15296f0e04c4487e65452fdab3bf22f6c1bfafe6aff26716c6505575de6194496d73b5dd19aa2819be3e989db390ddbf2d101712361e2c14d683e_1280-3082670-768x511.webp 768w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/gb1d73e6652e15296f0e04c4487e65452fdab3bf22f6c1bfafe6aff26716c6505575de6194496d73b5dd19aa2819be3e989db390ddbf2d101712361e2c14d683e_1280-3082670-600x399.webp 600w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/gb1d73e6652e15296f0e04c4487e65452fdab3bf22f6c1bfafe6aff26716c6505575de6194496d73b5dd19aa2819be3e989db390ddbf2d101712361e2c14d683e_1280-3082670.webp 1280w\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-fa8f5b5e26fca0cacd800549069fb653\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">If you\u2019ve spent years in the military or as a first responder, you\u2019ve likely been trained to prioritise others\u2014your team, your mission, and the people you serve. That selflessness is a strength, but it can also become a silent burden. When your own needs are constantly pushed aside, burnout and anxiety creep in, often without you realising it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7f9a357b20a39b7213e92d522559cba1\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Ignoring personal well-being isn\u2019t a sign of toughness\u2014it\u2019s a recipe for exhaustion. Over time, the stress builds up, impacting not just your mental health but also your effectiveness in the field. You can\u2019t pour from an empty cup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4e8b4cebcf30011718ff09760021fb5b\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Taking time for yourself isn\u2019t selfish; it\u2019s necessary. Whether it\u2019s seeking professional support, finding an outlet like exercise or meditation, or simply setting boundaries, small steps toward self-care can make a world of difference. The stronger you are mentally and physically, the better you can continue to serve others without sacrificing yourself in the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-453af7ed34873bc579d65d55cd6ebe56\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Your mission matters\u2014but so do you.<\/p>\n<\/details>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<details class=\"wp-block-details has-large-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-details-is-layout-flow\"><summary><strong>Mastering Difficult Conversations: Building Stronger Relationships Through Better Communication<\/strong><\/summary>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img data-dominant-color=\"dddddd\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g8fb2d95f5d9064e96a6242316cc4b8acdce411d218ca95c5568a9e99a88a6642aa394d6d7889f8c41c39733a2ec5a0a6e17cf49584a0685b1f7ad49bd313c595_1280-2574751-1024x682.webp\" alt=\"millennial, problem, whiteboard, writing, quote, quotation, autocorrect, miscommunication, communication, issue, board, all caps, capital letters, chat, burn in hell, auto correct, funny, silly, great, one-liner, whiteboard, whiteboard, quote, quote, quote, quote, quote, autocorrect, miscommunication, funny, funny\" class=\"wp-image-2973 not-transparent\" style=\"--dominant-color: #dddddd; width:392px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g8fb2d95f5d9064e96a6242316cc4b8acdce411d218ca95c5568a9e99a88a6642aa394d6d7889f8c41c39733a2ec5a0a6e17cf49584a0685b1f7ad49bd313c595_1280-2574751-1024x682.webp 1024w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g8fb2d95f5d9064e96a6242316cc4b8acdce411d218ca95c5568a9e99a88a6642aa394d6d7889f8c41c39733a2ec5a0a6e17cf49584a0685b1f7ad49bd313c595_1280-2574751-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g8fb2d95f5d9064e96a6242316cc4b8acdce411d218ca95c5568a9e99a88a6642aa394d6d7889f8c41c39733a2ec5a0a6e17cf49584a0685b1f7ad49bd313c595_1280-2574751-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g8fb2d95f5d9064e96a6242316cc4b8acdce411d218ca95c5568a9e99a88a6642aa394d6d7889f8c41c39733a2ec5a0a6e17cf49584a0685b1f7ad49bd313c595_1280-2574751-600x400.webp 600w, https:\/\/whatmakesthedifference.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/g8fb2d95f5d9064e96a6242316cc4b8acdce411d218ca95c5568a9e99a88a6642aa394d6d7889f8c41c39733a2ec5a0a6e17cf49584a0685b1f7ad49bd313c595_1280-2574751.webp 1280w\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7aa911435230ad999ee8ed13e6d7b635\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Avoiding difficult conversations\u2014whether at work or at home\u2014can lead to misunderstandings, frustration, and even the erosion of trust and worst of all, contempt. Once that is reached then the relationship is pretty much over. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d8c48fa30ae484eb8ad57e0652a517b8\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:28px\">Over time, a lack of clear communication can damage relationships, making it harder to resolve conflicts or work together effectively. So how can you communicate better?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-88d7cc6f31561aca6890d941eaaa4d73\" style=\"color:#f7cd84;font-size:27px\">One key strategy is <strong>asking open-ended questions<\/strong>. Instead of prompting a simple &#8220;yes&#8221; or &#8220;no,&#8221; these questions encourage deeper responses, helping you understand the other person\u2019s perspective more fully. 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